Little Life Lesson and Bit of Grace 33: Always send Thank You Notes
"Silent gratitude isn't much use to anyone." ~G.B. Stern
We live in a fast paced world where we forget common things and we rely too heavily on email and text messaging to communicate with the outside world.
When you are given a gift, WRITE A THANK YOU.
A handwritten thank you note is a necessity and is forgotten by many. Don't send a email or text, and don't decide to not write one because you forgot and it's been too long.
With the holidays approaching you are going to be showered with gifts, baked goods, and other acts of holiday cheer, so you need to get your "thank you note caps on." (Doesn't it just scream that I was an elementary school teacher in my previous life before children?!?!?!)
ALWAYS WRITE A THANK YOU NOTE!
There is an easy formula with 6 points that should be included in every thank you note. It is easy to do and should be memorized, used each time, and passed on to others that might not know.
Get some stationery to keep on hand so you will have it when a lovely and thoughtful gift comes your way.
1. Greeting~Don't forget the greeting. Dear Aunt Mary, works perfectly.
2. Express Your Thanks~Actually show your gratitude and thank the person(s) for the gift and name the gift/gesture in which this note is to express thanks for.
Thank you for the lovely cashmere throw
Etiquette Tip: Don't ever mention the amount of money that is given. Just say kindness or generosity.
3. Talk about Use of Gift~Say something nice about the gift and how you will put it to great use in the future. If it was a monetary gift, you can write how you will use it. Also, if it was a gesture such as being a guest in someone's home, you could say something like "It was so nice to have such a comfortable and welcoming play while we explored New York."
I look forward to curling up on the sofa during those chilly winter nights with the throw.
4. Mention the Past, Allude to the Future~This one is the one that I have found people have the most difficulty with. Make a mention of a recent visit or an upcoming party or trip. If this is someone you never see, you can write something like "I'm thinking of you and hope you are well."
It was so nice to see you at Grandma's house for brunch and I look forward to seeing you at the family reunion next month.
5. Gratitude and Grace~Show your gratitude one last time.
Thank you again for thinking of me.
6. Closing~Make sure to include a closing and signature to your note.
Thank you notes should be written as soon as possible, but don't worry if you forget or something comes up. Better late than never...
YOU CAN DO IT!!!